Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
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nullorchis (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Just finding a friend, of any gender, is difficult enough.
As soon as you start setting up criteria of any kind then the pool of availability starts to dwindle in any given geographic location.
Make the criteria even more restrictive and one must search a larger geographic area to find one's desired objective.
Birds of a feather do flock together. It is just that some flocks are sparsely populated.
I think it would be fantastic to have a friend, or even a partner, who was a eunuch. But that is of course only one particular. There is a lot more that goes into having a friend or a relationship.
Sometimes one must compromise.........not too much, but a little.
If having a friend or a partner that was compatible was not a eunuch, even then I would consider myself damn fortunate.
It would be nice "to have your cake and eat it too", but life usually isn't so generous.
As soon as you start setting up criteria of any kind then the pool of availability starts to dwindle in any given geographic location.
Make the criteria even more restrictive and one must search a larger geographic area to find one's desired objective.
Birds of a feather do flock together. It is just that some flocks are sparsely populated.
I think it would be fantastic to have a friend, or even a partner, who was a eunuch. But that is of course only one particular. There is a lot more that goes into having a friend or a relationship.
Sometimes one must compromise.........not too much, but a little.
If having a friend or a partner that was compatible was not a eunuch, even then I would consider myself damn fortunate.
It would be nice "to have your cake and eat it too", but life usually isn't so generous.
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TgEunuch (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Have you tried EA's Personals? I'm sure that there are men and other eunuchs who would love to have a eunuch boyfriend/partner. Why should eunuchs be exempt from having the same issues that plague bi, gay and straight people who are looking for the right person. But don't worry it will happen if it is your fate, karma or something else, but don't stop looking.
nullorchis (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 14, 2010 12:44 pm Just finding a friend, of any gender, is difficult enough.
As soon as you start setting up criteria of any kind then the pool of availability starts to dwindle in any given geographic location.
Make the criteria even more restrictive and one must search a larger geographic area to find one's desired objective.
Birds of a feather do flock together. It is just that some flocks are sparsely populated.
I think it would be fantastic to have a friend, or even a partner, who was a eunuch. But that is of course only one particular. There is a lot more that goes into having a friend or a relationship.
Sometimes one must compromise.........not too much, but a little.
If having a friend or a partner that was compatible was not a eunuch, even then I would consider myself damn fortunate.
It would be nice "to have your cake and eat it too", but life usually isn't so generous.
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Muffer (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
I love my older friend maimly since his wife set me up to e casteated , real fun 69 ing with him as the girls watch us do it
Muffer AKA TexEunuch
Muffer AKA TexEunuch
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Losethem (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Muffer (imported) wrote: Thu Jul 15, 2010 6:54 am I love my older friend maimly since his wife set me up to e casteated , real fun 69 ing with him as the girls watch us do it
Muffer AKA TexEunuch
You say older friend... how much older is older?
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devi (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
From a biological hormonal standpoint by very definition:
EUNUCHS HAVE POOR LIBIDOS (generally less than women even).
GAYS HAVE HEALTHY LIBIDOS (generally more than straight men).
The "horniness factor" is very skewed between the two groups.
EUNUCHS HAVE POOR LIBIDOS (generally less than women even).
GAYS HAVE HEALTHY LIBIDOS (generally more than straight men).
The "horniness factor" is very skewed between the two groups.
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stevenoo (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
I must agree with the thread starter, eunuch live-ins pre or post are hard to come by, it's difficult to get a match and the odds go way down when castration/nullification is the theme. It is for me and I can't get any visitors or friends that call even, out of this. So I agree with the original poster, "Where are all the available eunuchs, pre or post, who want to explore these things together. I'm pretty much in it for the process, And that skewers down the available attracters even more. So I understand, "Where are they?"
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devi (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Kind of the irony is that eunuchs can be considered as "gay" by the general population (since they don't expend much time chasing after women) and/but in fact sometimes may actually have a male sexual orientation (gay). However I do think there should be some type of distinction made between the actual persons (gays) with a healthy libido and those persons (eunuchs) who simply have low libidos.
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stevenoo (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
I must agree with the general theme here of how difficult it is to get into a close relationship with anyone, much less a eunuch or a eunuch lover. As for the gay thing or not, if you will notice, there just aren't that many women in the archive period. Personally, my wife left because of my strong interest in being a eunuch or nullo. And lately I can't buy a date. I met one guy and I forewarned him of my condition. He looked like deer caught in headlites and nearly ran out of my house. He wasn't even curious to see. I thought that everyone at least fantasized about castration at some time. That's why I only look on the archives for a possible partner with at least a castration interest, much less other of life's interests. So far I'm batting 0 in the relationship department. So I empathize with others here on the archive or in this thread that are one and want to be two, eunuch or not.
partner (male or female)(female eunuchs are less remarkabke in our society but that's another issue). So that's why the "gay" eunuch. I've actually expanded my search to include both men and women with a primary interest in eunuchs et al. Men seem to be the ones with the balls and or the lack of them. Opps, don't go all off on me about transgender etc. They've rejected me too. Having said that I'll take, would love to have, a nice eunuch boy around the house.
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Losethem (imported)
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
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I'm not sure where you've been looking but since I've been without balls I've found other guys simply don't care. They are more interested in having a male-appearing warm place to put their pecker in. I can't say that I've ever been rejected for intamacy, physical or otherwise, based on the fact I'm castrated.
*shrugs*
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stevenoo (imported) wrote: Mon Aug 02, 2010 12:22 pm I met one guy and I forewarned him of my condition. He looked like deer caught in headlites and nearly ran out of my house. He wasn't even curious to see...
I'm not sure where you've been looking but since I've been without balls I've found other guys simply don't care. They are more interested in having a male-appearing warm place to put their pecker in. I can't say that I've ever been rejected for intamacy, physical or otherwise, based on the fact I'm castrated.
*shrugs*
--LT
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Re: Why are no men interested in having a eunuch boyfriend?
Lesley (imported) wrote: Sat Jul 10, 2010 2:34 pm Personaly I would love a Eunuch boyfriend with the following conditions.
That he become transgendered and take estrogen, grow breast and live as a female but keep his dick or become a nullo. That may sound weired but I could live with a feminised eunuch.
Hmmm, interesting statement. Almost could be me.