I'm sorry for redacting your post but there are some points I want to address specifically
rclinftl (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 am
So I arrive unexpected for this abduction scene
I am not sure how common the abduction fantasy / scene is in the eunuch community. I'm not going to judge it either, but I suspect that it is the exception rather than the rule, as the eunuch community is very diverse.
The fact that you happen to encounter someone who is or wants to be castrated, has an abduction fantasy and a substance abuse issue has more to do with who that person is as an individual than it does with any particular community. The bottom line is that I don't think you can accurately extrapolate anything about other eunuchs based on your experience with this person.
rclinftl (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 am
it occurs to me that he is a meth or crack head. NOT just a pnp party type guy, he was by and far a serious and whacked out meth or crack head.
From what I have scene, one generally leads directly to the other.
rclinftl (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 am
The georgeous $million+ house was a total shambles, he was a total shambles, it was obvious that he was in the last leg of his addiction and that everything has fallen apart... his body was riddled with meth sores and he was lucky to be 80 pounds soaking wet.. it was definetly more than just having wasting from HIV although that could be part of it as he obviously isnt taking care of himself or anything else, but it was total chaos, like walking into a zoo, with drug supplies everywhere and the neglect, severe severe neglect, I am CERTAIN it was the later stages of being a meth or crack head (sorry I dont know how to distinquish the two)
And all of that, IS par for the course.
rclinftl (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 am
ANYHOW I dont want to sound judgemental, because I am NOT being judgemental, I myself am clean and sober for nearly 22 years, I UNDERSTAND, however, it is not something I was prepared for and not something I ever want to have to deal with again...
Unfortunately meth addiction is epidemic, and it is very difficult to avoid bumping into it from time to time. You may be able to improve your odds a bit by placing "drug free no pnp" in your sex add. Also meeting in a neutral location in a public place for an initial interview before the play date begins is a great way of avoiding people you don't want to be involved with. Who knows, it may even save your life.
rclinftl (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:47 am
is this an isolated incident? I know that anyone who is willing to have thier balls cut off has issues, hell we ALL have issues wether we are interested in castration or not, but what I mean is this something that goes with the territory? Is this something I would have to expect in dealing with this interest of mine? Are thier lots of healthy minded geldings and I ran across a snag in my first outing or is this commonplace and something that goes along with the package?
I think it is a unique experience rather than an experience typical of eunuchs
Sorry I just had to.
I think it needs to be said that there is a huge difference between someone who is willing to have their balls cut off, and the vast majority of eunuchs who desire castration for personal reasons.
The person who is willing to loose their balls for someone else's gratification really does have issues, and to be perfectly honest I think you increased your odds of meeting that person when you set up your play date.
Of course there are healthy SM/BD fantasies, and even castration play can be fine, but there are people for whom the fantasy is driving their reality, and when you add in the pnp factor you are increasing the odds of meeting someone with serious issues. If you want to avoid such people then you will need to screen your play dates more thoroughly.
If you want to meet healthy happy eunuchs, there are plenty of them here. Just be respectful.
