walking on egg shells

[transward (imported)]

am quite aware of the "rampant drug use surrounding the kinkier sex scenes" as you suggest, but I also feel like a majority of the membership here wouldnt want to be pingeonholed into a label of kinky sex, say as opposed to an alternative lifestyle, a lifestyle in which is new to me, so why would it be presumptiousness to inquire after explaining my first experience? Its a matter of being informed...

*scrapes off all the eggshells from bottom of boots

Had your yen been for say, a racial minority sub rather than a eunuch sub, and the encounter had gone exactly as you described, I wonder how you would have been received had you gone to a newsgroup catering to that minority and asked the same question. “Hey, I arranged kinky anonymous sex with one of you guys and he turned out to be a meth head/crack whore. What’s with you guys? Are you all meth head/crack whores? And, say, why are you so testy?” I suspect your welcome would not be warm.

Transward

[Sweetpickle (imported)]

Maybe you should examine your dating skills. If you are attracting tweakers and

crack whores you may want to try a different approach.

[rclinftl (imported)]

Had your yen been for say, a racial minority sub rather than a eunuch sub, and the encounter had gone exactly as you described, I wonder how you would have been received had you gone to a newsgroup catering to that minority and asked the same question. “Hey, I arranged kinky anonymous sex with one of you guys and he turned out to be a meth head/crack whore. What’s with you guys? Are you all meth head/crack whores? And, say, why are you so testy?” I suspect your welcome would not be warm.

Transward

well in theory that would be correct, but we both know that is apples and oranges, being black or interracial relations hardly qualifies as kinky sex nor does it hold a unique set of circumstances such as being gelded that qualify it as a foreign lifestyle to most peoples experiences...

if you think about it in all liklihood they would find your comparision post here quite insensitive and racist, actually I am quite certain of it *wink

I on the other hand understood your intentions. I poised my initial querry with tact, maybe its time you all gave me the same benifit of the doubt as well, and stop being so damn thin skinned, if you didnt want others to take an interest in your world and lives you could create a closed community, otherwise maybe its time to be a more gracious host and not so hostile toward those whom actively seek to embrace the community...

*eggshells eggshells eggshells everywhere!

[tugon (imported)]

I on the other hand understood your intentions. I poised my initial querry with tact, maybe its time you all gave me the same benifit of the doubt as well, and stop being so damn thin skinned, if you didnt want others to take an interest in your world and lives you could create a closed community, otherwise maybe its time to be a more gracious host and not so hostile toward those whom actively seek to embrace the community...

*eggshells eggshells eggshells everywhere!

Looking for eunuchs for your sexual pleasure is not what I call embracing the community.

[rclinftl (imported)]

Maybe you should examine your dating skills. If you are attracting tweakers and

crack whores you may want to try a different approach.

for starters I dont know how whore/prostitution got dragged into this discussion, it wasnt the scenerio at all, and actually I indicated quite the reverse, elaborating that his home was worth "$million+" not the living arrangements of most meth or crack whores I suspect...

furthermore I am not attracting anyone -errr DOH! let me rephrase that LOL

it is I whom is attracted to sub geldings, and the best of my knowledge at this point there are a total of TWO that are known here in south florida, in which I actively persued relations with both, meth head isnt something he volunteered during our initial coorespondense...

[rclinftl (imported)]

Looking for eunuchs for your sexual pleasure is not what I call embracing the community.

that would indicate that I have no considerations of the pleasure of the eunuck, and that just isnt the case...

if a eunuck is sub and actively seeking a guy like me, is it not a two way street ? I think I have made my stance clear that I am not here to exploit anyone, as another member here thankfully recoginized, thus my concern about the drug use and not the mindframe that he was easy prey... I think investigating the lifestyle here for a better understanding is indeed embracing the community, others mileage may vary....

EDIT: I would also like to remind everyone that I did indeed mention that I lead a clean and sober lifestyle ie: recovery, thus drug abuse is a serious concern for me.

[charlenebrown (imported)]

At the risk of getting in some hot water, i can appreciate rclinftl's point of view.

Then again i AM a subbie and would remain so even when i no longer have penis and testicles, which will happen one day , i have absolutely now doubt.....

As far as the drug use is concerned, i find that very very hard to deal with, and would have run a mile had i experienced anything like he had! i have not ever seen anyone either use or be in possession of any and it would freak me out !

charlene

[Riverwind (imported)]

Looking for eunuchs for your sexual pleasure is not what I call embracing the community.

I Agree,

I am not sure if its just me but I find you to be a user, you have traded one habit for another and you are trying your best to justify your new found life stile. This is not the site you need to be at, this is not a place for you to troll, I am sure there are plenty of sites that would welcome you with open arms but this is not it. Frankly I find just about everything about you to be revolting.

People come here to be part of a community but I have yet to figure out what you are doing here except looking for your next eunuch boy toy. We are so much more then you are.

River

[chilliwilli (imported)]

I Agree,

I am not sure if its just me but I find you to be a user, you have traded one habit for another and you are trying your best to justify your new found life stile. This is not the site you need to be at, this is not a place for you to troll, I am sure there are plenty of sites that would welcome you with open arms but this is not it. Frankly I find just about everything about you to be revolting.

People come here to be part of a community but I have yet to figure out what you are doing here except looking for your next eunuch boy toy. We are so much more then you are.

River

His avatar is just a bitoffensive and strongly indictes insecurity on his part. Anyone who points a gun at another immeidately destabilizes a situation, and any chance of trust...forget it. However a high chance of abuse exists to the young man who lets another lord over him with threats of physical harm.

The folks here need community to better understand and enjoy themselves, so to do recovery addicts. I think you too have a long way to go in recovery and this is not the place.

Sex, like play is best enjoyed when you have all your "work done". Good luck rclinft I think you have offended enough folks here!

congrats on 22 years of sobriety.

chilli-

[Uncle Flo (imported)]

I've been posting here for 8 years and have NEVER run afoul of the Red Nun, the Dark Lord or that huge bearded troll, Uncle Fester, oops,. I meant Uncle Flo.

Be polite and accurate in your posts and you should be fine.

Troll, eh? Be careful what bridges you walk over. --FLO--