walking on egg shells

[rclinftl (imported)]

it does feel like one must walk on egg shells around here... I read post and nearly EVERYTHING seems to be deemed inappropriate, anyhow I will give this a shot, I do believe I am in the right category as this is a eunich related post "THAT JUST DOESNT SEEM TO FIT ANYWHERE ELSE"

I have no interest in castration for myself, however I like submissive geldings. I know of two in the florida area, one of which I am in contact with at the moment and arranging a "playdate." The other I had already arranged a playdate with, an abduction of sorts, and traveled across the state to make that happen. I am NOT discussing the details of sex here, that is not my intent, I am just providing some history so you can understand my concern and reason for the post... So I arrive unexpected for this abduction scene in which I did some significant traveling to make happen, and after I arrive and put forth my efforts to make this playdate materialize, and have this gelding "captive" it occurs to me that he is a meth or crack head. NOT just a pnp party type guy, he was by and far a serious and whacked out meth or crack head. The georgeous $million+ house was a total shambles, he was a total shambles, it was obvious that he was in the last leg of his addiction and that everything has fallen apart... his body was riddled with meth sores and he was lucky to be 80 pounds soaking wet.. it was definetly more than just having wasting from HIV although that could be part of it as he obviously isnt taking care of himself or anything else, but it was total chaos, like walking into a zoo, with drug supplies everywhere and the neglect, severe severe neglect, I am CERTAIN it was the later stages of being a meth or crack head (sorry I dont know how to distinquish the two)

ANYHOW I dont want to sound judgemental, because I am NOT being judgemental, I myself am clean and sober for nearly 22 years, I UNDERSTAND, however, it is not something I was prepared for and not something I ever want to have to deal with again... is this an isolated incident? I know that anyone who is willing to have thier balls cut off has issues, hell we ALL have issues wether we are interested in castration or not, but what I mean is this something that goes with the territory? Is this something I would have to expect in dealing with this interest of mine? Are thier lots of healthy minded geldings and I ran across a snag in my first outing or is this commonplace and something that goes along with the package?

[charlenebrown (imported)]

Ohh poor You. The first experience of *anything* aught to be at worst neutral, at bes grat. This i am sure has spoiled us for You - but I certainly hope this was an exception and not the rule

xxx

Although i have my issues, and , well iam a m-f transgendered prson, not exactly 100% normal (read average) i am sane healthy and hopefully, for all that well-balanced and pretty much well adjusted.

i hope Your second experience, if You dare to brave one , is better.

xxxx

charlene

[chilliwilli (imported)]

Hopefully a greater amount of understanding and acceptance would assist a castrate become a more well rounded indivdual. No one wants to be or become a drug addict. Addiction is a waste. Sex can be one of the greatest and healthiest of activies. (That and laughter;)) Replacing healthy sexual relations with drug abuse is a sad state for humanity. It is wonderful that you are not at all interested in controlling another through the distribution or withholding of illict substances. Most prostitutes in this country, while at some point enjoyed servicing others, ultimately just service a drug habit.

A person who's sexuality is so different or focused, can be very alluring. However, they likely come with a whole list of problems that "made" them or "keep" them that way. Beauty and sexuality are just one, albeit powerful, forces of the world. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not everyone would appreciate a eunuch. And even fewer, after aknowledging an attraction to the castrate, would want to deal with all the "issues" and/or quirks they most certainly have.

Many poeple have a fascintion, and often desire for the altered male, while others assert any man who thinks about or actually removes the testicles is most certainly insane. There are many well adjusted eunuchs. It appears that you have discovered a drug addict with various other health issues.

Congrats on your 22 years of sobriety!

chilli-

[kristoff]

it does feel like one must walk on egg shells around here... I read post and nearly EVERYTHING seems to be deemed inappropriate, anyhow I will give this a shot, I do believe I am in the right category as this is a eunich related post "THAT JUST DOESNT SEEM TO FIT ANYWHERE ELSE"

The problem lay in the fact that you originally came in here and started posting inappropriately then arrogantly started to tell me how to run things. I ran you out the door. You can stay for now, but do walk on egg shells.

[transward (imported)]

ANYHOW I dont want to sound judgemental, because I am NOT being judgemental, I myself am clean and sober for nearly 22 years, I UNDERSTAND, however, it is not something I was prepared for and not something I ever want to have to deal with again... is this an isolated incident? I know that anyone who is willing to have thier balls cut off has issues, hell we ALL have issues wether we are interested in castration or not, but what I mean is this something that goes with the territory? Is this something I would have to expect in dealing with this interest of mine? Are thier lots of healthy minded geldings and I ran across a snag in my first outing or is this commonplace and something that goes along with the package?

It seems just a wee bit presumptuous to be extrapolating to all eunuchs from a single data point. As one who has been cooking for Catholic Community Services' drug and alcohol program for ten years I can testify that you will find meth and crack heads among bankers, lawyers, bartenders, waiters and a whole lot of other professions. (At least at the beginning. Long term meth use does tend to debase character) That being said I will note that the numbers among sex workers is quite high. Often that is the only way to support their habits. And having been on the fringes of the kink community for a lot of years I will note that you will run into a lot of drug use in the online kinky sex scene. Caveat emptor

Transward

[tugon (imported)]

Sounds like the "gelding" could have used a good abduction and help getting clean and sober. I hope he gets the help and support you may have received in your struggles with addiction.

[OneBallBoi (imported)]

rclinftl, usually, the less you say around here, the better. Listen and take their advise. Just keep quiet in the mean time and you will gain far more.

[rclinftl (imported)]

The problem lay in the fact that you originally came in here and started posting inappropriately then arrogantly started to tell me how to run things. I ran you out the door. You can stay for now, but do walk on egg shells.

it wasnt my intention - I posted in the intro/fantasy section my interest and recieved a message from you that "posting classifieds" was inappropriate- it wasnt my intent to post a classified it was my intent to tell everyone why I was here and what I was into - I honestly still dont see the difference - I in no way was trying to solicite anyone - sowwy if it appeared that way...

also in the "why only one pic" thread I created in the tech section I most certainly wasnt trying to tell you how to run the site - I was just sharing my extensive experience on the subject - it is one of my trades by profession - I now see the bigger picture (no pun intended) and the preference of maintaining a guarded/protective atmosphere here over the perks (and unwanted exposure) that such measures would avail - again my apologies if you found it a bit presumptious - glad we can chalk it up to awkward introductions and I'll do my best to walk the straight and narrow until I have a better understanding of the game plan here...

[rclinftl (imported)]

It seems just a wee bit presumptuous to be extrapolating to all eunuchs from a single data point. As one who has been cooking for Catholic Community Services' drug and alcohol program for ten years I can testify that you will find meth and crack heads among bankers, lawyers, bartenders, waiters and a whole lot of other professions. (At least at the beginning. Long term meth use does tend to debase character) That being said I will note that the numbers among sex workers is quite high. Often that is the only way to support their habits. And having been on the fringes of the kink community for a lot of years I will note that you will run into a lot of drug use in the online kinky sex scene. Caveat emptor

Transward

am quite aware of the "rampant drug use surrounding the kinkier sex scenes" as you suggest, but I also feel like a majority of the membership here wouldnt want to be pingeonholed into a label of kinky sex, say as opposed to an alternative lifestyle, a lifestyle in which is new to me, so why would it be presumptiousness to inquire after explaining my first experience? Its a matter of being informed...

*scrapes off all the eggshells from bottom of boots

[MacTheWolf (imported)]

I've been posting here for 8 years and have NEVER run afoul of the Red Nun, the Dark Lord or that huge bearded troll, Uncle Fester, oops,. I meant Uncle Flo.

Be polite and accurate in your posts and you should be fine.