Haha, precisely matey, defining could benefit from some refining, but might that lead to still more misidentifying?

Let's just not place too much importance on whatiyamwhatiam,it seems so different for everyone.

You're wise, thanks for the chats

Since the session, who I am has turned all runny, and I'm casting about for an appropriately shaped vessel to pour myself into. All the world has gone like a Salvador Dali picture. I recognise all the parts, but it still doesn't quite make sense. My relationship with just about everything is ...

Yea I get you

It doesn't even make sense to everyone but...

I guess if you say you're male and so does your special one then you could call yourselves gay/homosexual, if you wanted.

But if for some reason you aren't into that then you're free to say that you're both opposite genders... who is to ...