Pre-penectomy stories, either F/m or M/m, where both people act like his penis isn't there and he doesn't acknowledge or mention it (no trans, no vaginal contact if F/m) ???

A heterosexual cis male with severe BIID since childhood, affecting the penis and only the penis to where it causes him discomfort and no sexual pleasure whatsoever, so he can't use it to masturbate and has to use anal methods or some other type to have orgasms.

It's theoretically possible for this ...