I think I can speak for a number of people when I say that we can appreciate the hell you are going through. The tone here is being supportive and upbeat, and sometimes what doesn't get expressed is the confusion, hurt feelings, and hostility you have to face if life didn't equip you with a ...

Woggler58 really nailed this topic, but just to throw in a personal POV, I was surgically castrated at 52. For a few weeks after the thrill of having gone through with it led me to masturbate to a climax daily. Then my erections became softer and harder to maintain; but mainly I found myself losing ...

You have asked a very challenging question. And an unanswerable one. It was not something you did on impulse. You thought about it a lot at the time and it was in tune with your sexuality. But we really can't get back of that. Why are some of us straight, some of us gay, some of us TG? As a number ...

Dear Futurist,

If you are covered through a plan through your employment, your rights are (largely) governed by your plan. Getting hold of a detailed set of criteria for what your plan covers is not easy. The doctors who are helping you will probably be able to access the benefits details more ...