First of all, thanks to everyone for the replies.

second, we have been together for almost two years and are well on our way to getting married, we are just waiting for our living arrangements to be better, we want to buy a house before we tell everyone, but he already asked me to marry him and ...

I am turning to this community for answers and help, my long term boyfriend has been coming onto this site several times a week for longer than we've been together,

when I found out I was, admittedly, scared and upset, but when I tried to talk to him about it he shut down, he refuses to talk to me ...