I have to say, I was concerned with the direction this was going for a while. I'm really glad you decided to talk to your wife in a way that starts you both off on common ground. However, I would suggest continuing that way of approaching the issue - looking at porn to satiate certain fantasies is ...

Women have the most to lose from having sex. A women can be left alone caring for a child and the man is nowhere to be found. Yet, still many women will risk all for sex.

I also think You can love more than one woman at a time. We are not by nature monogamous creatures. Unfortunately, our society ...

I guess I needed to bring it up because there are many here that blame just about everything on their testicles. I guess that would be normal in a forum such as this. I had a little problem that I brought up in my introduction about crushes on other women besides my wife. Some mentioned that it may ...

Because women also have testosterone in their bodies which energizes sex drive, the same as men. (By the way, men also have estrogen in their systems.)



But where is the testosterone being produced in a women ? and if a man lops off his love puppies is he still going to produce testosterone and ...

I have seen it written many times here that some men have neutered themselves because they do not want to be bothered with sexual thoughts and cravings. Many Eunuchs claim that they do not have fantasies of sex and do not miss it. The last time I looked women do not have balls. Shouldn't women have ...

unencumbered (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:14 am Lack of libido lets you focus on other things in your life.

This is true, I have always wanted to be a serial killer but never had the time for it. Thank you, I think i will chop off my nads now.

unencumbered (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:29 am Reduce your testosterone enough and you will have little or no interest in porn anymore.

Not to worried about eliminating porn from my life., it only takes up a total of 5 minutes of my day ..... and thanks to the miracle of the internet I don't have to pay for it

Your situation is much like mine was during my 15-year marriage 30 to 45 years ago, except the genders were the other way around -- it was my wife who coveted the additional sexual relationships. She got them, too, without my disapproval or jealosy, and without reduction in our own caring ...

Because I have long observed sometimes-serious prejudice directed toward autism-spectrum folks, I chose to describe some aspects of biology that you might, or might not, regard as useful in some way or other. The autism spectrum has tended to be divided into two camps, those whose lives fit the ...

I was referring to cousneling for yourself, at least at first. It could be the case where she is asked to come with you at times, but it would be your therapy primarily. Better to do it proactively than hope you can salvage your life after the fact :)

I understand. Thank you for your help ! Are ...