Hoosierdad, thank you for checking in and giving an update. Great to hear from you!

For all the guys posting here whose wives find intercourse painful, a recent study indicated that 1/3 of all women find intercourse painful.

Follow this link to a health blog on WBUR, the main NPR station in Boston ...

considering -- nonamesplease suggested in response to my postings in another area here that I consider DP, which brought me here and caused me to go through all of your postings since 2007. You have done a wonderful job of describing your experience from experimental, psychological and spiritual ...

Great suggestion about DP, which lead me to the fairly extensive postings by consideringthecut from 2007 to date. I'm sure there are other such threads here as well. The level of chemical/experimental and psychological detail provided by thoughtful guys posting here is invaluable. At times I feel ...

Thanks so much for the feedback and the support and ESPECIALLY for sharing your own stories. This is the first time I have not felt weird or alone in quite awhile.

Raymar, your dog sounds wonderful. Our mutt passed away after more than 12 years and we still miss the sound of her nails on the floor ...

I am just blown away by the honesty, love and courage that comes through these postings.

Quick question for hoosierdad and anyone else with experience on this. How did you find a doctor to prescribe and monitor Androcur? How did you raise the subject?

So, I could use some advice.

Am trying to figure out if I should try Androcur or an SSRI or both or something else.

Basic situation: about 50 years old, 2 largely grown kids, my wife's sex drive has pretty much crashed over the last 5 years (she's the same age) while my sex drive has declined only ...