Thank for the good suggestions. I came out because I felt she needed to know. Of course it was upsetting to her, but in a strange way it has brought us closer together. We certainly talk more and not just about my bisexuality.

I was thinking about reduced libido when she brought it up. Her reson ...

Does she just want you to bug her for sex less or are there other things going on like fetishes or affairs that have her concerned? How old are you both?



Stacy, There are other things going on. I recently came out to her as a bisexual. She thinks a lowering of my libido will help me keep that ...

My wife would like it if there was a chemical that reduced my libido but did not completely chemically castrate me. Is there such a thing