I am 13 months past my vaginoplasty and while physically fine, I have nerve issues that have yet to resolve. There is a mild pinch that never goes away and several times a week it feels like an erection. Eventually I will spend an evening trying for an orgasm, but no luck so far. The phantom part ...

I agree. I am new here, trying on the label Eunuch to see how it feels and if I want to integrate the identity. From my experience, stigma and taboo are things that we have agency over if we are willing to claim them. It's not always easy to see how someone from your tribe plants their flag, but God ...