Also, I would have PM'd you if I had known who to PM. I only posted here because I could not find any other way of finding out what is going on. This seemed like a technical problem to me and this is a technical forum. What is the appropriate forum for such a question? How does one know who to PM ...

It was not a bitch note at all. It was a request for help in doing research on urethral reroutes. It was polite and well placed in the penectomy forum I thought.

I submitted a post to the Penectomy Forum about a week ago. I assumed it was being moderated. If it was rejected do I get to find out why?