Kellyslarkin,

I think a totally smooth-crotched look would be perfect. Very streamlined and unambiguously definite about the guys preference (and also the preference of women, like you, who also like guys with that look).

Nothing in-between or un-decided about that. If a guy also had boobs that ...

Maybe sometime we can get back to Kellyslarkin's original question.

For now I think it is impossible to find any name that would make everyone comfortable. Context and personal preference are too subjective and variable to be able to settle on one name for anything. Maybe just some purely ...

I think ladyboy is a perfectly acceptable term but like most words it depends on who is using it about whom and how they are using it. I don't know for sure but I think in Thailand "ladyboy" is just a descriptive word and is not derogatory.

Is a "ladyboy" a complete male-to-female transgendered ...

Polarthong,

Here are a couple of reputable web sites.

You can try emailing Dr Suporn to see if he can do the procedure you would like or if he can recommend someone who can -(http://www.supornclinic.com). He has an excellent reputation.

For some information on reputable clinics in the US, UK, and ...

Polarthong,

It sounds like a great idea and I have considered it myself. I remember seeing some web sites for clinics in Thailand that can do what you would like. You will have to do a web search for that or look on reputable transgender sites that have recommended clinics or reviews. Anything is ...

The best place I've heard of is www.inhousepharmacy.com - you can use a credit card or send money via western union. They ship through Vanuatu. They have been very reliable.