Hi Lee, im from the UK myself. Welcome and i hope you find what you are looking for!

Hi Justine. Admitadly i havent had a lot of experience dating since my surgery i but i have chatted to a number of women in online dating. My experience is a little like your own with being assumed to be submissive and attracting the type of woman who is turned on by a man that is no longer a man ...

If its any consolation Justine. My labia often fall out if i wear a skimpy gstring. Not easy pieces of clothing!!

So it sounds like we have a good mixed bag of reasons for why a lot of us wear panties. Some for comfort. Some for hiding the bulge. Others to feel more feminine and some because they are nullo, female or have female genitals. Interesting mix, especially when you think that panties, like all ...

Take it as it comes and remember even women often have a small bulge there ie camel toe. Maybe wear loose workout clothes and shorts for swimming?

Have you used anything other than a gaff? Duct tape? Glue? Etc.. considering you enjoy wearing panties without a bulge, will you one day have your bulge removed or are you happy to keep tucking?

Haha Nidaho, i know that feeling exactly. My local is a 10 minute walk away and it is damn inconvienant not being able to go on a tree or something. However you just get used to it and make allowances so you go before you leave. Yes i do miss my penis some days. Having one had a lot of perks.

So the idea is to keep the package secure and hide it completely if possible? How comfortable is a gaff?? and you say it stops erections? Is that painful??

It is a big difference Nidaho, but like most things, time has a way of creating a new normal. I do miss standing to pee and the ease by which a man can just flop it out and do his business pretty much anywhere. But after so long its just something i am used to dealing with. Its why topics like this ...

Careful indeed. There is a big difference in losing just your balls vs all of it. If you want to have it all removed and either become a nullo or have a vagina because that is what you really want, go ahead. If you only do it because you are frustrated, be very careful. Changing your anatomy is a ...