I am an Asexual male. I am cuurently on meds for chemical castration although my GP has refeered me for full surgical castration in Feb 2010 on the grounds that my asexuality is at odds with my sex drive and is causing me all kinds of anguish.

I would still love to have a relationship with a woman ...

I have been using an elastrator on and off for some months now. I can never manage to suffer the pain for more than 45 minutes to date. The pain is just too much. Has anyone actually,successfully used this method to acheive castration? and if so, as a general rule, how long does band need to stay in ...