Hi Polarthong

You are not alone. There are men like us out there. I am a 60+ person who has lived as a gay male all my life, but now I realize that I need to perform sexually as a woman. Like you I wish to have fully working female genitalia and get rid of my "boy bits," which disgust me. One ...

i have impersonated a male for 47 years now and don't really feel like starting over (as a female).



Hi surf toad,

Your comments are exactly the same as my feelings. I too have been impersonating a male all my life, though as a gay male. I certainly don't want to start over as outwardly female ...

I really want to thank cdejours for all his help. And, to Ulysses and Jemagirl, thank you too for your very thoughtful messages. This board is such a wonderful lifeline.

And, sag111, I agree. Jemagirl's avatar shows her to be a stunning beauty.

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It would be impossible to obtain this surgery from a surgeon who adheres to the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care. Some GRS surgeons, esp. many of those in Asia, are more flexible in terms of who they will provide surgery to, so if you are prepared to lie and have the money then it may be possible ...

I am looking for some help and advice. I am a middle-aged person who has lived his life as a gay man, but as I get older, I realize that my deepest sexual need is to be able to function as a woman.

I have been searching the net for information but all the doctors and clinics insist that to have GRS ...

Well... I finally did something I've wanted to do for a long time... I went out this evening and got my PA piercing. I still have yet to urinate with it, not looking forward to that. I know it's the price we pay to get what we want, right? 🤪

Anyone seen the latest photos on BME? I'm glad the guy ...