Generally we should try to improve ourselves. The rub is who gets to decide what traits are desirable.

Well, he may get his wish and be chaste.

I have no reason to think that the post that started this thread is anyhing but legit but I recall several years ago a B&D site I used to frequent often had posts from a guy, "Slavemaster", who advertised for women who wanted to be dominated by a strong master. Two or three years later it turned out ...